Repenting on the Pavement: Finding a Mature Voice in Urban Mission

By Ryan C.

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True spiritual transformation in a city requires more than a strategy; it requires a shift in our personal posture.

This involves moving from a critical spirit to one of mature repentance and genuine humility.

I have had to learn this through personal failure and some hard-won lessons on the streets of a few cities in the UK.

The Trap Of The 'New Thing'

When I first started in movement work, I had that "strident" voice.

I looked at mainstream churches as something entirely separate and less relevant than the "new thing" I was building. But that rough, critical tone often shuts doors before a relationship can even begin.

We think we have the "only thing," but that pride actually blocks the progress of the mission.

The Moscow Realization: 'We Need Them'

Before we landed in the UK, a Russian movement leader in Moscow told me something that had stuck with him: "We've really had to repent and go back and speak more kindly to the churches because we realize we need them". That is the mature, nuanced voice I wanted to bring to wherever I served.

I landed with a strong sense that I was meant to learn from the existing churches and see if relationships of trust could be built.

The UK Crucible

This process has not been easy; it has required me to grow in humility for my own benefit.

As a "nobody" from the outside—a former American lawyer—talking about a "weird sounding strategy," I have experienced genuine condescension from leaders whose denominations are shrinking.

Sitting across from someone who calls your work into question is a crucible for the soul. An opportunity to grow in humility, patience and forgiveness.

Pavement Repentance

People often didn't share my enthusiasm or vision for what God might want to do in our cities.

It's fair to say they didn't always communicate their views in a way that felt good to me. Sometimes I was deeply hurt, and my flesh wanted to respond in unhelpful ways. There were times I had to leave those meetings, get outside on the pavement, and repent right there.

I would often pray, "Lord, do you want me to meet with them again? I hope the answer is no."

Usually, the answer was, "Yeah, one more time".

I embraced this discipline of forgiveness for the sake of my own maturity and what I believe is possible if we can absorb each others' imperfections and work together in unity.

From Influencing To Respecting

For a decade, my motivation was often just to influence mainstream churches to do the thing I thought was right.

But I've learned there is a deeper value in fostering unity even if they never adopt my methods. Can we improve the conversation for the sake of the Kingdom?

Building mutual respect and trust creates conditions for the unity Jesus prayed for that no argument over strategy ever could.

Conclusion

Evaluate your heart posture: How do the people you lead hear you speaking about other believers?

Poking through the darkness of our cities requires us to be "Kingdom-minded together instead of competitive," and that work begins with our own repentance.

Getting Practical

As you think about God's vision for your city and/or affinity group:

1) When was the last time you felt "strident" or "critical" toward a different expression of Christ's Body? What was the fruit of that posture?

2) Are there any past or present relationships where you need to "repent on the pavement" and choose forgiveness for the sake of the Kingdom?

3) How can you model a "mature, nuanced voice" when describing your mission to those who use different methods?

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Grounded in hands-on harvest work in the UK, Ryan serves leaders and teams catalytically across the United Kingdom and in Europe. You can connect with him at https://www.godmovements.uk/.

This article is one of a series where Ryan explores how movement leaders can move beyond the "invisible water" of Western individualism to foster a radical, city-wide unity that makes the gospel plausible to our modern urban contexts.

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